Easy ways to tell if a girl is interested in you:

• She constantly makes attempts to touch your hand.
• She buys you small gifts for no reason.
• She leans towards you when you talk to each other.
• She smiles at you a lot.
• She laughs at your comments and jokes.
• She acts giddy around you.
• She mentions activities that you are interested in so there is a chance for you two to do them together.
• Her eyes light up when she sees you or hears your name.
• She touches you more often than what friends do.
• She constantly asks about your status with girls and asks your preference in types of girls
• She flirts with you.
• During a conversation, she mirrors your actions and your voice fluctuations. This action is referred to as “mirroring” and is a very positive sign that she is interested.
• She asks you out to lunch or dinner.
• Her face turns red when you’re near her, or when you talk to her.
• Her pupils dilate when he looks at you. Our pupils will dilate when we are looking at anything we like whether if be an object or person.
• She blinks more than usual when she looks at you.
• She flutters her eyelashes.

Being creative with your kissing methods can be an additional beauty and strength in your relationship.

However, for first time kissers, it is best to stick to the convential, confortable way of kissing, because getting too creative at your first kiss my turn your partner off if he or she is not used to it.

Suck Kissing

This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner’s lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.

Nip Kissing

This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your date. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your date / partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you’ve kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.

Surprise Kissing

This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.

Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner’s slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner’s mouth.

Tongue – Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner’s tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.

Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner’s lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.

Great Breath – This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.

If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don’t take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don’t want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips – You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don’t wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.

And don’t wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner’s and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.

Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner’s head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.

Close Eyes – Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.

Open Lips – Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner’s lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner’s. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.

Closed Lips – This is like the type of kiss you’d give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you’re nervous.

First of all, I’ll let you know THREE things I believe:

* Most guys who are in long-term relationships are settling due to their previous lack of successes with relationships and their lack of knowledge about how to keep a women.

* When you begin to understand women more, you will realize that most women are NOT the type of woman you would want to have a long-term relationship with. There are not many 10/10’s out there.

* If you eventually do meet and attract a great woman that you really, really like, it is essential that you handle the situation RIGHTif you want to keep her.

How do you know if she’s worth the effort? If you actually worry about things like how long you should wait to call, whether you should send a text or email or pick up that phone, then you probably like her enough to want to see if this becomes a relationship.

Once you’ve sussed out your gut feeling and decided to go for it, the first thing you need to know is what a woman expects you to do next. You should know:

* If she is an attractive woman, then you are probably not the first man to have shown an interest. She probably has a lot of experience with men wanting to start a relationship.

* If she is hot, you can expect that:

- She has been approached by men a lot!

- Most men that she dates end up following her around like a puppy dog.

- She sees a guy who is overly nice as “needy” and is turned off.

Believe it or not … beautiful women are more attracted by men who pull them in, then push them away just a bit, than by men who try to reel them in with all the romantic gestures they can think of.

It all comes down to one simple question: How do you get someone to want something?

Take a minute to think about why people want things in the first place. Can you make someone want something that they didn’t want before? What are the things that you want, and why do you want them? Ask yourself why nightclubs have lines of people on the street waiting to get in, even when the nightclub has plenty of space inside. Why do so many people purchase shirts that are brand name, like Nike or Calvin Klein, when they can get the same shirt without the brand name for less money?

What did you notice about those examples? I think that it is obvious that:

* Most people want things for non-logical reasons.

* People want what they don’t have and can’t have. They also get bored fast when they get what they want.

* Knowing that something is available easily makes us lose interest.

Stop for a moment and think about this. Are you easily available? Does she have any reason to want you?

The Keys to Keep a Woman Wanting You

* Become a challenge.

* Give her a little, then lean back.

* Give her the gift of missing you.

* Be unpredictable.

When you become a challenge, you gain the attention of a woman’s thoughts and feelings. Women are NOT attracted to pushovers! They are attracted to men who are a challenge, who are elusive, who give them the opportunity to wonder about what the man behind the image is like. When you learn to master the “give a little, then lean back” tactic, you will create in the woman’s mind a sense of wanting more. That’s right … wanting more of you! The fastest way to become uninteresting and boring is to keep giving the new woman in your life loads and load of attention and conceding to everything she wants. Take some time out; spend a few days doing your own thing. Let her think about you while you’re apart. When you get a woman to miss you, you create a powerful effect.

The Rules of Attraction

A MAJOR MISTAKE THAT MEN MAKE is feeling insecure. They think that they must call and keep in touch with a woman at all times. Don’t do the same thing! Men that are unpredictable do something that is almost MAGIC. Think about the great women-magnets of the big screen, like the character of James Bond or Indiana Jones. What woman wouldn’t want to be with someone who appears one way on the outside, yet hides the rugged spontaneity of an adventurer beneath? These guys are never insecure! That’s because they lead an exciting life, and women have to grab hard if they want to hang on for the ride.

Let me put it simply: when a man understands how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION, then he doesn’t do things that are PREDICTABLE and women will tend to think about him ALL THE TIME.

Things that are predictable don’t require much thought. They’re uninteresting and boring.

You’re going to have to work at this. Being unpredictable, spontaenous, and interesting will take some thought. You’ll have to break old habits and take new risks. If you do, you’ll discover that women will be FASCINATED and INTRIGUED by you. Think about it. What makes a bad movie? Predictability. What makes a great movie? You have no clue what happens next, and the drama keeps you on the edge of your seat. Predictability and BORING-NESS go hand-in-hand with TURNING A WOMAN OFF and are the opposite of attraction.

Here are a few tips:

If you decide to call a woman the next day, be cool, but not too slick. Don’t try to set up another date immediately. Call just to say “Hi, how’s it going?” Have a short chat, then end the call before either of you can start feeling your attention wander. Sit back, relax, and be assured that for the next few days she’ll be thinking of you!

1. If you decide to email, keep it short and upbeat.

2. Never complain, be in a bad mood, or act like you need attention. Keep things cool, calm and upbeat.

3. Let her miss you. This is very important. Think of it as a gift you are giving a woman! You are giving her the gift of excitement, which is what all women want in a man.

4. Don’t see a woman more than twice a week for the first month.

Don’t focus too much energy on the relationship until you decide that you definitely want it to last long term. Don’t stop dating other women until you two are officially going out. When you focus too much time and energy on a woman you have just met, it may creep her out and make her run, even if you hit it off like a bang at the outset.

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