Easy ways to tell if a girl is interested in you:

• She constantly makes attempts to touch your hand.
• She buys you small gifts for no reason.
• She leans towards you when you talk to each other.
• She smiles at you a lot.
• She laughs at your comments and jokes.
• She acts giddy around you.
• She mentions activities that you are interested in so there is a chance for you two to do them together.
• Her eyes light up when she sees you or hears your name.
• She touches you more often than what friends do.
• She constantly asks about your status with girls and asks your preference in types of girls
• She flirts with you.
• During a conversation, she mirrors your actions and your voice fluctuations. This action is referred to as “mirroring” and is a very positive sign that she is interested.
• She asks you out to lunch or dinner.
• Her face turns red when you’re near her, or when you talk to her.
• Her pupils dilate when he looks at you. Our pupils will dilate when we are looking at anything we like whether if be an object or person.
• She blinks more than usual when she looks at you.
• She flutters her eyelashes.

Being creative with your kissing methods can be an additional beauty and strength in your relationship.

However, for first time kissers, it is best to stick to the convential, confortable way of kissing, because getting too creative at your first kiss my turn your partner off if he or she is not used to it.

Suck Kissing

This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner’s lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.

Nip Kissing

This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your date. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your date / partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you’ve kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.

Surprise Kissing

This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.

Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner’s slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner’s mouth.

Tongue – Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner’s tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.

Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner’s lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.

Great Breath – This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.

If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don’t take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don’t want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips – You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don’t wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.

And don’t wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner’s and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.

Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner’s head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.

Close Eyes – Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.

Open Lips – Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner’s lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner’s. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.

Closed Lips – This is like the type of kiss you’d give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you’re nervous.

In today’s world, the challenge of a long distance relationship is even more difficult. More and more young men and women are moving and working in distant places. The sensations of touching, cuddling, and caressing are no longer available. Spending quality time with each other is also not there. Another thing one might not realize is missing is the occasional argument. These little arguments actually reinforce relationships, and bring couples closer together.

So how do couples keep their long distance relationships going? One thing you can do is keep pictures near by to always remind you of them. Put one on your night stand so they are the last thing you see before sleep. Take one to work so you see them all day. This will remind you of your partner, and if you are truly in love, you will cherish every moment your eye catches one of the pictures. Also, talk about your friends with your partner so they do not feel out of the loop.

Use online services such as e-mail, chat, and especially voice chat to keep in constant touch with your partner. Talk about more than how much you miss each other. Good conversation is a must to keep a long distance relationship alive. Talk about your day, and do not forget to ask how their day is going. Interest in your partner’s day to day activities will also keep them interested in you.

Make an effort to see each other once a month or every couple of months if the situation makes traveling difficult. Make sure you do your part to go to them instead of them always coming to you. If you can accept the fact you will have to put in a little work to keep the long distance relationship alive, and your partner feels the same, you will have nothing to worry about!

First of all, I’ll let you know THREE things I believe:

* Most guys who are in long-term relationships are settling due to their previous lack of successes with relationships and their lack of knowledge about how to keep a women.

* When you begin to understand women more, you will realize that most women are NOT the type of woman you would want to have a long-term relationship with. There are not many 10/10’s out there.

* If you eventually do meet and attract a great woman that you really, really like, it is essential that you handle the situation RIGHTif you want to keep her.

How do you know if she’s worth the effort? If you actually worry about things like how long you should wait to call, whether you should send a text or email or pick up that phone, then you probably like her enough to want to see if this becomes a relationship.

Once you’ve sussed out your gut feeling and decided to go for it, the first thing you need to know is what a woman expects you to do next. You should know:

* If she is an attractive woman, then you are probably not the first man to have shown an interest. She probably has a lot of experience with men wanting to start a relationship.

* If she is hot, you can expect that:

- She has been approached by men a lot!

- Most men that she dates end up following her around like a puppy dog.

- She sees a guy who is overly nice as “needy” and is turned off.

Believe it or not … beautiful women are more attracted by men who pull them in, then push them away just a bit, than by men who try to reel them in with all the romantic gestures they can think of.

It all comes down to one simple question: How do you get someone to want something?

Take a minute to think about why people want things in the first place. Can you make someone want something that they didn’t want before? What are the things that you want, and why do you want them? Ask yourself why nightclubs have lines of people on the street waiting to get in, even when the nightclub has plenty of space inside. Why do so many people purchase shirts that are brand name, like Nike or Calvin Klein, when they can get the same shirt without the brand name for less money?

What did you notice about those examples? I think that it is obvious that:

* Most people want things for non-logical reasons.

* People want what they don’t have and can’t have. They also get bored fast when they get what they want.

* Knowing that something is available easily makes us lose interest.

Stop for a moment and think about this. Are you easily available? Does she have any reason to want you?

The Keys to Keep a Woman Wanting You

* Become a challenge.

* Give her a little, then lean back.

* Give her the gift of missing you.

* Be unpredictable.

When you become a challenge, you gain the attention of a woman’s thoughts and feelings. Women are NOT attracted to pushovers! They are attracted to men who are a challenge, who are elusive, who give them the opportunity to wonder about what the man behind the image is like. When you learn to master the “give a little, then lean back” tactic, you will create in the woman’s mind a sense of wanting more. That’s right … wanting more of you! The fastest way to become uninteresting and boring is to keep giving the new woman in your life loads and load of attention and conceding to everything she wants. Take some time out; spend a few days doing your own thing. Let her think about you while you’re apart. When you get a woman to miss you, you create a powerful effect.

The Rules of Attraction

A MAJOR MISTAKE THAT MEN MAKE is feeling insecure. They think that they must call and keep in touch with a woman at all times. Don’t do the same thing! Men that are unpredictable do something that is almost MAGIC. Think about the great women-magnets of the big screen, like the character of James Bond or Indiana Jones. What woman wouldn’t want to be with someone who appears one way on the outside, yet hides the rugged spontaneity of an adventurer beneath? These guys are never insecure! That’s because they lead an exciting life, and women have to grab hard if they want to hang on for the ride.

Let me put it simply: when a man understands how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION, then he doesn’t do things that are PREDICTABLE and women will tend to think about him ALL THE TIME.

Things that are predictable don’t require much thought. They’re uninteresting and boring.

You’re going to have to work at this. Being unpredictable, spontaenous, and interesting will take some thought. You’ll have to break old habits and take new risks. If you do, you’ll discover that women will be FASCINATED and INTRIGUED by you. Think about it. What makes a bad movie? Predictability. What makes a great movie? You have no clue what happens next, and the drama keeps you on the edge of your seat. Predictability and BORING-NESS go hand-in-hand with TURNING A WOMAN OFF and are the opposite of attraction.

Here are a few tips:

If you decide to call a woman the next day, be cool, but not too slick. Don’t try to set up another date immediately. Call just to say “Hi, how’s it going?” Have a short chat, then end the call before either of you can start feeling your attention wander. Sit back, relax, and be assured that for the next few days she’ll be thinking of you!

1. If you decide to email, keep it short and upbeat.

2. Never complain, be in a bad mood, or act like you need attention. Keep things cool, calm and upbeat.

3. Let her miss you. This is very important. Think of it as a gift you are giving a woman! You are giving her the gift of excitement, which is what all women want in a man.

4. Don’t see a woman more than twice a week for the first month.

Don’t focus too much energy on the relationship until you decide that you definitely want it to last long term. Don’t stop dating other women until you two are officially going out. When you focus too much time and energy on a woman you have just met, it may creep her out and make her run, even if you hit it off like a bang at the outset.

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If we are to believe the movies, the ruthless tough guy, Mr. Bad Boy, always gets the girl !! If we remember the bad guys at school and college with the best looking babes it appears that the movies could be right. The best looking girls always seem to love the bad guys. Maybe because the best looking guys always became the bad guys ? Everywhere we tend to see bad guys and nice girls, we see fools and meatheads with the girls of our fantasies. In the mall we see our flaxen haired goddesses with America’s Most Wanted. Is it nature at work, is it us, what is going wrong? You see men are confused. Men like to refer to stereo types and work from them. We are told that we need to be a hero and a tough guy, but then we are told we need to be in touch with our sensitive sides and be a modern man holding the baby.

Meanwhile the man down the street who treats his girlfriends mean, never calls, is rude and unhelpful and shows little respect appears to have a fan club developing. Life my friends is often unfair. Okay let us look at what is going on with this scenario.

Interest. Yes, interest. Bad guys are interesting, they do interesting things. They have strayed from the straight-and-narrow and are a law unto themselves. They do what they want. They go where they will and they answer to no one. They are interesting. Tow the line, do as you are told and you are dull. Mavericks are interesting, straight guys are not. Generally.

Bad Guys are a challenge, we all love a challenge. Women love a challenge just like guys. If something is a challenge the end results must surely be worthwhile? Of course and bad guys are a challenge. The girls who go after a bad guy want to keep them to themselves and will do a great deal to keep hold. The more you want them, the greater there is a chance they may walk away. Women love to feel good about themselves and getting their bad guy, at least for a while, satisfies that urge. This appeals to some people and the greater the danger of loosing a bad guy, the greater the effort to keep them. There may be a lesson there.

Bad guys are confident and self assured. They know what they are about and don’ really care what others think. They are their own men and don’t need others to prop them up. Some can become almost caricatures  of themselves but that doesn’t make them any less attractive. Bad guys don’t have to be in shape, just look at James Galdofini from The Sopranos. Somewhat out of shape if Mr. Soprano doesn’t mind me saying, but immensely attractive all the same.

What have we got if we combine these facets. Power, strength of character, confidence, a maverick nature and an immensely interesting personality. That equals sexy. Is it any wonder therefore that such types of guys often get the gals. It doesn’t mean to say that we like them and it doesn’t mean to say that this is fair or a good thing. But it can be natures way.

I am not in any way suggesting that we should all be Mr. Bad Guy. No not at all. What I am saying is that there are lessons to be learned here. What is attractive can be modified and added to our social arsenal of dating weaponry. It is first the way you perceive yourself that matters. If you can increase your confidence levels, get your career on the right tracks, excel in what you do and be your own man within the confines of your working life then this will boost your attractiveness. You don’t need to go round being bad, but you can be a bit more deliberate in your actions, a little less available and a little more enigmatic. This will boost your interest factor and again help in your attractiveness.

The modern dating game is highly complex and courting rituals can be a minefield. Go back to basics and analyze within yourself what is it that you think partners like and how can you match of yourself to those qualities. Changing just a few small things could make the world of difference.